Could you help me fit in a little bit?

I feel like a burden to all of the great people I call my friends and the wonderful man I call my boyfriend. I know I'm strange; I know I'm different, but, I want to fit in. I've been myself, and people seem to hate me even more. They hate the type of music I listen to; Alison Krauss, Meatloaf, and many other extremely talented artists. I'm always being poked fun at because I have an uncanny Obsession with Patrick Swayze. I want to know more ways I can get people to see me for what I am on the inside. I'm sick of being treated like dirt because, at thirteen, I am a hippie. I can't stand violence, the mistreating of animals, or eating meat, even though my entire family are HUGE meat-eaters. They always call me 'Flower Child' and 'Free Lover'. I want to fit in so badly; because it's starting to seriously affect me. I don't talk as much anymore and I'm meaner. I can barely stand to look and myself and I know I'm a terrible person for doing so. I'm sorry to be ranting on like this. Could you help me fit in without sacrificing my personality?