What is the name of this disorder?

I think it's a disorder. It occurs in children who are neglected, abandoned, or mistreated by their parents, and they get disturbingly attached and possessive to another adult figure.

Should I bring this up with my boyfriend of 3 years?

Before dating my current boyfriend, lets call him Gene, and I were together (just wanted to be friends at the time) I had recently broken up with a really immature ex (call him Ken). However since I was afraid of what Ken would do I made it seem like all was not lost to him so we would hang out awkwardly but all the while I had no feelings for him and was growing closer to Gene. So when Gene and I did start dating I told Ken and he of course was hurt. Years later I am starting to feel guilty for never mentioning it to Gene since we werent "together" at the time. Should I just try to forget it or just get it off my chest and let Gene know? I am asking here so I can get different perspectives from people who arent close to the matter or biased (friends/family)

Which names do you like best out of all these names? (pick as many as you like)?

What about Summer Raine?, Skylar,Jordan,Rance( different),Ava-Lynne,Blake Devin,Mason-Lynne,Kaleah Danielle,Sophia-Lynne,Lynne Paige,Ayden Dakota,Mason McKenzie,Tara Haley,Bradley Derek,Tyler Garrett,Teegan Janelle,Olivia Mason....I made up a few, Most are very nice names

What do you think of these names?

Honey you and I are not only on a different page name wise; It's a whole different book! Ithink it would be really mean to call them any of those names .life is tough enough

How to deal with a mother-in-law from hell?

My mother-in-law makes our lives miserable. She's done a lot of cruel things including taking our home from us. Then trying to run it. She's also tried to drive me away from my husband. She's always making rude remarks in what she thinks is a sweet clever way. She does it in such a way that my husband don't catch on. I've never mistreated her. I'm good to her and his whole family. I'm a great wife. I cook,clean,take care of my husband in every way possible. My mother-in-law is a user. The only time she ever wants to talk to me or my husband is when she's wanting something. My husband and I get along great until he talks to to his mother. Then he's rude and cocky to me. She's going to be moving closer to us in a few weeks. I want her out of our lives so bad it hurts. I don't wish death upon her. Just a lot of physical distance between us. How to I cope with such an evil woman. Please don't reply mama's boys telling me to suck it up and get over it. Thanks everyone.

Moving with family... good and bad areas of Temecula/Murrieta, CA?

My husband and I grew up in Rancho Cucamonga and we are now looking to purchase our first home in the Murrieta/Temecula area. We have 2 young kids, 4 and 2 1/2, and don't need a ton of space for our first purchase. My husband will be commuting to Riverside for work. We went looking with a realtor all day yesterday and I am still torn between all of the areas we looked at (he was a little biased since he lives in Temecula and he feels that the Temecula school district is the best). I need help from other locals. What do you think of either area? What communities do you think are the best to live in? I know we looked in the Red Hawk and Vail Ranch of Temecula as well as Northstar Ranch of Murrieta. Any comments on those? Any specific borders to stay in or around would be very helpful as well. Thank you!!

People who have seen Transformers 3 is it worth seeing?

I saw it today with my boyfriend and I loved it. I think you should ask her what she likes instead of jumping to Transformers. At first I was like ok where is this going but in the middle-end it made more sense. Everyone has a different view of it. Too much action, plot wasn't right etc. It doesn't matter what other people think of it. See it for yourself.

Did lebron really choke....or is the nba fixed!!!!?

If the NBA Finals was fixed, why did the Heat have more free throw attempts than the Mavericks? It wasn't fixed, the Mavericks legitimately won the NBA Finals.

Final Opinons for my twin daughters?

imo, Madeleine Elise flows, Micaela Raine doesn't, and together they are too matchy. Maddie is tolerable, hate Micah for nn, it's an active boy's name, I know two.

Would this Jewish Character sound like stock character?

Unless you make him a megalomanical paranoid, uh, other form of Jewish stereotype, then I've never heard of a character like that.

I don't like our new dog... at all? opinions/advice?

well first of all i find it a titch immature to "not like a dog" ... you are 20 not 10 ... that puppy has done nothing to you and probably feels your dislike and how is that fair ... grow up ... next, your father was foolish to purchase this new puppy ... the most basic of research says you do not raise puppies together because they will bond with one another and have less use for the humans and their commands ... and this puppy may or may not be buddies with your current puppy ... which does suck for the current dog ... i selfishly got a puppy when i already had a dog and the old dog hated the new one ... ruined the last years of my first dogs life ... you said your older puppy is bullying the new one ... you should not allow that ... and this statement "I'm telling you with 100% seriousness that I know I'll never bond with this dog" means you seriously need to grow up ... this new puppy is a living, breathing animal, it is not its fault your father is clueless about dogs, and you are whining about not being able to bond with a puppy in two days ... not being able to love a puppy says more about the type of human being you are than anything negative about the puppy ... if you can not take the living conditions in your parents home then i suggest you get your adult butt off the sofa and move out ... take your precious 6.5 month old puppy and be done with it ... (who lives at home at the age of 20, 20 is an adult you know) ... reading this i would assume you are an only child with some self-absorbed, narcissistic tendencies to post all this over a puppy your family has had 2 days ...

WDYT of the name Declan Levi and Lucas Alexander for twin boys?

I am pregnant with two girls(Madeleine Elise and Micaela Raine) but I was just curious what people thought of the names I liked if i was pregnant with boys instead of girls.

WDYT of the following names for girls?

Chandler Raines Collins is the best I think in my opinion. It's unisex and raines it a girly middle name for sure. It sounds beautiful when you put it together.

Guys: Ever regret mistreating an ex girlfriend?

Shes very supportive of you in all aspects, emotionally, financially, etc. Who listens to you, respects you, comforts you and makes you feel like a king... Shes loyal and faithful and not jealous... Doesnt get mad when your out with the guys, Takes you to nice restaurants, sporting events and sends your mom flowers to her work at every single occassion. She cooks for you cleans for you and washes your clothes and folds them and puts them away. Would you regret losing someone like this??

I don't like our new dog... at all? opinions/advice?

The poor little dog! Give her a chance! Your other dog will love having a companion too. I understand that your dog is your special buddy, especially if she's helped you through depression. But this new little pup will bring you lots of joy too. She needs love and i think it's strange you are saying point blank that you'll never bond with her. Sounds more like you don't want to. Are you worried that loving this puppy will diminish your bond with your original pup? It won't. If this puppy isn't going to be loved then please rehome her. It will be hearbreaking for her to see your other dog being loved and not her. She's a baby for goodness sake. Not some asshole cousin that's come to stay that you have nothing in common with.

Why would someone use negative propaganda against a whole group of people?

For the same reason that person blocks everyone who answers their question honestly but disagrees. ∠°)

What are the democratic traits?

I don't mean democratic vs republican traits... I mean the actually government type that the Greeks came up with. No Biased Answers- I don't care if you're republican or democratic. I wouldn't be asking this if it weren't for an assignment for my ap gov. class.

Should i break up with him?

I have been dating this guy for 3 years now . We re both 25 . He s nice to me ,he goes out of his way for me , and im his first gf. he only had one night stands before me .Im the first he s had feelings for and the first one he s ever kissed.He s paid for a lot of expensive stuff i wanted even though he was broke,he never complains when i mistreat him,he tells me how he feels about me,he has cancelled jobs just to see me even though he has money problems.He quit his job(he s a model) for a year when we first met&was with me 24/7.He never lets me go when i tell him its over,he cries&begs.And lots of other things that prove he loves me.But there are things i dont like .For example , i only get to see him once a week for 2 hours because he s busy(even though we live 30 mins away form each other ) and we talk on the phone only for like 10mins a day .He lies all the time about where he is . For example he stold me many times he was asleep and then i found out he was out clubing .I ve seen photos of him with slut *y girls at clubs where they re all over him. He says he didnt do anything .He s cancelled dates with me telling me he was at his grandma's & then i found out he was at the beach. And yesterday i found out he was lying about going to the gym every saturday for 3 years ! His gym is closed on saturday! We also never had sex together even though he s not a virgin , nor does he want to get married .He only wants bjs . His has never taken me out,we always sit in his car at the beach.And yesterday i was on a date with him . On the way back, he stared at some girls .He s done that before . He also hit me once and i got in the hospital. Im really heartbroken and i need the opinion of people who dont know me , because friends just take sides . Excuse my english ,im not american.

The fact that the Klitschkos at such an old age (35 and 40) are so dominant means nothing too?

They are great but i can't give them credit because they are not naigghers like me, woahhhhh i am a naiggher.

Would Mayweather vs Pacquiao end up like Whitaker vs Trinidad?

Whitaker was 35, the same age as Floyd if Floyd fights Pacquiao next year. Whitaker rarely received any punishments as he is often consider the best defensive fighter since Willie Pep. But just like Mayweather he had layoffs. To me it seem like a similar incident with Mayweather vs Pacquiao. Pacquiao is the no.1 p4p and Mayweather is older like Whitaker was vs Trinidad. Trinidad brawls like Pacquiao and Whitaker is a defensive genius like Mayweather. But Trinidad destroyed Whitaker. In all honesty and no bias I do feel Pacquiao will destroy Mayweather brutally just like Trinidad destroyed Whitaker.

Why does my friend guy like to hurt me?

I have been knowing this guy for years since we were kids. Alot of things happen where he was in jail before and he supposely got a girl pregnant. Even though it hurted me from all of the negative things he said and done to me. I forgave him and tried to be his friend since then. But it seem like the only time he want to be involve in my life is when he want to have sex with me. But I don't do it because I'm afraid to get hurt again. He claim that he doesn't want to be around me anymore cause I like him too much but it isn't like that to me. I just want his time and his friendship. True... I do love him and I still have feelings for him but for some reason we can't really stay at a friendship level anymore. I don't understand why he say the things he say to me. He claim he doesn't trust nobody but I never done anything to hurt him. I always been the one to care about him and worried about him when he doesn't come home. I feel like I deserve better treatment from him then to be mistreated all of the time. Sometimes I wonder do i overreact to things when it comes down to it. I feel like I'm nothing to him but just a sex toy. He use to show so many feelings towards me. He use to tell me that he really does have feelings for me. So now I don't know what happen to us? I don't know why we act that way with each other. My friends tell me I should move on from him because it is not worth getting hurt all of the time. There are times where i just ignore them and still try to be around him. Is that stupid of me???? Sometimes he text me Good Morning or Come outside so we can chill and talked but then there are times where it is hard to get in touch with him or sometimes he don't want to answer his phone or text me back. I don't know what to do. I feel like a fool when it comes down to him. I pray everyday about me and him. I pray that we can get our friendship back like it use to be, but I don't think we have that chance anymore. Sometimes i believe he want to tell me his real side but instead he say things like I don't want to hurt you so I don't want you to like me anymore or you can do better than me. Why do he say things like that? He doesn't hang with his friends no more. He cut everybody off but he is cutting off the wrong person, the wrong girl who does love him alot. When I tell him I love him he takes is lightly like I'm just playing. I don't know what to say anymore. What should I do?????? I need some advice :(

Are stocks undervalued, fairly, or overvalued right now?

Just wanting to gather some opinions. Frankly, I think that larger capitalization stocks around the globe are probably slightly undervalued right now. That's where I have most of my money, hence the bias.

Unique Short Girls Names N+S+R+M?

couldn't think of any names that start with that, but "Jasma" is gorgeous. "Belle" and "Jolie" are beautiful too, maybe because "Belle" means Beautiful And "Jolie" means pretty.

Pick the names based on meaning 4!!!!?

Caroline Raine, Evangeline Scarlett, Stella Esme. I'm pretty much in love with name #2 and #3 but don't care for Caroline Raine much

Could you help me fit in a little bit?

I feel like a burden to all of the great people I call my friends and the wonderful man I call my boyfriend. I know I'm strange; I know I'm different, but, I want to fit in. I've been myself, and people seem to hate me even more. They hate the type of music I listen to; Alison Krauss, Meatloaf, and many other extremely talented artists. I'm always being poked fun at because I have an uncanny Obsession with Patrick Swayze. I want to know more ways I can get people to see me for what I am on the inside. I'm sick of being treated like dirt because, at thirteen, I am a hippie. I can't stand violence, the mistreating of animals, or eating meat, even though my entire family are HUGE meat-eaters. They always call me 'Flower Child' and 'Free Lover'. I want to fit in so badly; because it's starting to seriously affect me. I don't talk as much anymore and I'm meaner. I can barely stand to look and myself and I know I'm a terrible person for doing so. I'm sorry to be ranting on like this. Could you help me fit in without sacrificing my personality?

Is depression an excuse to mistreat people?

well in my opinion, no. but it's a hard subject. it's kind of like asking if a mentally retarded/ unstable person killed someone, would it be their fault? some people say yes because they should have gotten help, others say no because the person is unable to act properly by themselves.

In the market for a car or a truck. Which make?

I have a 98 tacoma with 330,000 miles(currently because it was free) and I don't know how long till she cloaks. So I need some useful inputs from all of you. American, asian, or european? I'm not biased on any makes

I LIKE HIM BUT IM SCARED. !! help?

Hi Guys! I realy need some help here. So I just recently (a month ago) got out of a BAD relationship. I was treated badly, screamed at constantly, always was put on a "guilt" trip and he would act very controlling. This relationship lasted for 2years and Im glad to be out of it now. Im having a good time having fun with friends and all. However, I've gone on a couple of dates with this realy cute guy I had a crush on. he seems to be very fun, adventorous, confident, nice and is such a gentlemen. Just yesterday he asked me what would I say if he told me to kiss him. I said "No", and I found myself acting very weird after this. I know he noticed because It was just very akward afterwards. He was still being Nice though. We've gone on three dates already and I can say Im scared in a way because I feel like I already like this Guy ALOT and I just don't want to mess things up, or move on too fast. Im scared of being mistreated or getting into a bad relationship ever again. I don't want him to think Im immature or anything(if he doesn't already). I realy DID wanted to kiss him but I don't want him to think Im easy or anything like that. HELP! I don't know what to do? I Like him ALOT and I don't want to push him away. What can I do for him to know that I like him but aren't ready for a relationship?

How important is time in a relationship?

time is very important in a relationship, the more time you guys spend together the stronger your bond and relationship becomes, even if you guys dont see each other everyday, you guys should still value the time that you do spend with her even if its just for a hour.

Do You Like These Girl's Names + BQ?

I think having 2 middle names makes it sound like you are more so listing off names rather then it being one whole name. Sienna Kinsley or Sienna Rian (ry-an) is cute though!

Which countries can I move to and take my children that their father can't come to that country and get them? ?

I want to move out of the US with my children because their father is an abusive man and he is friends with police officials and judges and he always gets away with mistreating them. They deserve a better life.

Would you confess to your partner that you used to be a bully?

Of course u need to tell ur partner, it's a big part of ur life, there is no way u can lie about it unless u make up a completely new identity for urself. And even if u do manage to keep it secret, sooner or later things are always always discovered. There's no secret that remains a secret forever. So spare urself and him the pain, and tell him. I can tell that u havent changed much... any other person simply knows the right thing to do would be to tell.=/ Sad.

Muhammed Ali Questions!?

If I recall correctly, from his autobiography, he threw his gold medal into a river in disgust when he got home and I think in 96' they had another one made and presented it to him. I use to watch him on TV when I was a kid and as a white kid in another country (Australia)I use to laugh because Ali would come across as trying to make out he was racist towards whites but he could never pull it off. There isn't a racist bone in his body and it was so obvious to me. Years later when I went to Vietnam my respect for him quadrupled. The courage he showed by refusing to go to Vietnam is up there with the bravest of the brave!

What do you think of this article?

It's a strange and useless gender experiment. I have no problem with it, in theory, but the teachers already grew up being used to genders, so THEIR actions will influence things.

What does it mean when i can see through my closed eye lids flicker of images?

What usually happens is that when you close your eyes you just see the last thing you were looking at... Nothing special.

Which baby names do you like best...?

I like Ashton River for the boy name and for the girl's name it's a toss up between Isabella Raine and Allison Elise.

Should i end this relationship?

I have been dating this guy for 3 years now . We re both 25 . He s nice to me ,he goes out of his way for me , and im his first gf. he only had one night stands before me .Im the first he s had feelings for and the first one he s ever kissed.He s paid for a lot of expensive stuff i wanted even though he was broke,he never complains when i mistreat him,he tells me how he feels about me,he has cancelled jobs just to see me even though he has money problems.He quit his job(he s a model) for a year when we first met&was with me 24/7.He never lets me go when i tell him its over,he cries&begs.And lots of other things that prove he loves me.But there are things i dont like .For example , i only get to see him once a week for 2 hours because he s busy(even though we live 30 mins away form each other ) and we talk on the phone only for like 10mins a day .He lies all the time about where he is . For example he stold me many times he was asleep and then i found out he was out clubing .I ve seen photos of him with slut *y girls at clubs where they re all over him. He says he didnt do anything .He s cancelled dates with me telling me he was at his grandma's & then i found out he was at the beach. And yesterday i found out he was lying about going to the gym every saturday for 3 years ! His gym is closed on saturday! We also never had sex together even though he s not a virgin , nor does he want to get married .He only wants bjs . His has never taken me out,we always sit in his car at the beach.And yesterday i was on a date with him . On the way back, he stared at some girls .He s done that before . He also hit me once and i got in the hospital. Im really heartbroken and i need the opinion of people who dont know me , because friends just take sides . Excuse my english ,im not american.

Is 'Street Fighting Uncaged' any good?

i noticed you don't have any answers yet so i will try my best to help. i havnt heard of this street fighting thing but i do know alot about taekwondo, mma, karate, and juijitsue. i highly recommend checking out different schools near you and studying how they work. watch how they teach and what they teach, because your very right you cannot just limit your self to only kicks or only hand to hand combat if you want the advantage in a fight. you have to be prepared for ANY situation at ANY given time. i know alot of taekwondo places focus on kicks but in my school we do alot of punching and hand techniques. just remember that all schools are different so dont judge a style of martial arts just by watching a school or two. GOOD LUCK!!

Don't you feel kinda sorry for Blagojevich?

I know that he's corrupt and did a quite a few bad things, but don't you feel sorry for him with the media gobbling him up? Just leave him alone already - he already has been stripped of his rights. Plus, the jury of 11 women and 1 man? That's biased.

What does the word Biased means in this sentence?

Broken. But I'm biased since he wrote it for me. :) its about one artist song and he wrote a song for his gf

Does it seem like the media give President Obama a big pass when it comes to his gaffes?

Yes, but when a republican candidate makes a gaffe while speaking the press jumps all over it. Remember how much we heard about Sarah Palin's gaffes? It was never ending.

Why do I miss my terrible ex?

I was with my ex for almost 15 years, we have 5 children together. It was a long struggle of a life together, filled with cheating, lying, verbal abuse...he'll tell me all the time that I need to remember that we did have some good times and that I will admit. I do not regret any of my children at all and know that without our relationship I wouldn't have them and without all the misery he put me through I wouldn't have become the strong person I am now. I'm trying to set a good example for my kids and show them that a person is supposed to be loved unconditionally and not mistreated or taken for granted, I have a new boyfriend and we have an awesome relationship, he loves me unconditionally, it's so different to me to have someone love me heart, body and soul and he loves and adores the kids as well. I feel blessed to have such a good man introduced into my life, someone who has told me he knows that loving and being with me means taking on a relationship with my children as well and even lending a hand with them and that he's perfectly OK with that. So life is good in that sense. On the other hand my ex is being terrible and bitter, says that if we cant be together we can not be friends or work together as parents in any respect says mean things about me to people, says that I "NEED to give him another F'n chance", uses the kids for information, interrogates them about me and my boyfriend instead of spending quality time with them. Has threated to call CPS on me say lies and have the children taken away from me and claims that he will fight me for custody of the children "just because he says so". So with all that being said, why do I sometimes find myself feeling sad, maybe depressed and missing...something, sometimes I feel that I just feel guilty that I've taken the kids father out of their life. Please give your kind advice.

If God's Wife is Here On the Earth, How Could She Really Represent God?

Assuming God has a wife, it wouldn't be her job to "represent God". Her job would be to bare God's children, change their diapers and make their lunches.

Should i give it another try?

If you don't think you love him, don't make him think you do. It'll just turn out worse in the end. Just confront him with it and break up. You can still be close friends, sometimes that works out better anyways.

Anyone else have problems with their Father? FATHER'S DAY SOON...?

I wasn't around my father as a kid much, and the little I did see of him made me wish I didn't see so much as that. People makes mistakes, but he different, he was cruel for no reason. I never heard anything close to a compliment my entire childhood. But he made sure he didn't forget to mention things to tear me down, hollering at me, profanities and letting me know how fat and pathetic I was, threatening to beat the living daylights out of me- the only reason he was unsucessful in that is because my mother protected me, and I watched him mistreat her too. He mainly had a lot of hatred of her and wishto bring her down I think why he took his anger out on his children. How am I going to care about somebody like this? He never did anything to help us my whole childhood. I was being treated for depression and anxiety as a child and he still treated me the same crummy way. He makes a big deal about how noble he was in sending us money every month after the divorce- but it was being drafted out of his account by the courts! And he didn't even want that, he begged and tried to fight it tooth and nail. I don't see how he's fulfilled his role as a father to me. Now as he's older and I'm a grown woman he wants to see me. I've seen him several times, this is just about getting someone to take care of him, he's driven off all of his other children and wives (he has many from different marriages.) and is lonely. If he had offered one teeny, little apology or even not, but tried to behave humbly and with patience, give me time, then I might have given him a chance, but he doesn't- his attitude is one of entitlement, shouting demands at me and blaming me and my mother for everything. Not to mention he goes around telling everyone these fantastical lies about me and her, denying his abuse. I don't care about that, I've just had it up to here... he just makes my life hard. Father's Day's just about here so i can't help but think about my own, usually I get depressed. I'm ready to stop seeing him, and I haven't been really, but I think tomorrow is a kind of point of no return if I don't go to him. I feel guilty and stressed out, but I've been letting my head rule my heart and I don't see how this is a healthy relationship. I know what love is- that is how I know that is not what I am getting from him, I have other people who care about me, other family and friends so I'll be alright. I wanted to hear some objective voices though and see what you thought.

Does court bias/no fault divorce/child custody favors that women have...?

No it's not a fair statement because you don't have other sources (besides your own opinion) that prove women in general are heartless and only after money. I've gotten to know plenty of women who are soft-hearted and certainly can care less about money. I think real women don't love you for your money or any other material posession you have. They love you for who you are. Nonetheless, there are heartless women who are gold diggers, but most of them (in my experience) are not like that.

Would this Jewish Character sound like a caricature?

Interesting story. Hmmm.... haha. Idk your friend should just do what he wants since it's well his story. It seems fine to me.

What would you do if you had family member mistreated you even though you help them evey month with bills?

Im starting to feel used at times and that I have no value as a person. Im having trouble connecting to people and the only time someone needs me is when I can give them something. I feel that i should not do anything but that could possibly be so destructive to their lives and I cant live knowing that

How do you explain the bond of human and dog?

this baffles me. the bond between a person and their dog is so strong, even if the dog is mistreated.. which is even more amazing. dogs gives unconditional love. humans are horrible, were violent, we steal, we do everything we shouldnt. yet dogs, commit no crime, and they are "mans best friend". i rescued y dog from a shelter almost four years ago.. she was horribly abused and neglected.. and yet she still is able to trust. she has become my shadow, theres not one thing i do w/o her with me.. shes the best thing in my life. but when other people come around she protects me with everything she has. the bond is so incredibly strong.. how is this so? its amazing how much a dog bonds with their owner.

Parents, what do you think of this? Would you send your child to a preschool like this?

No way! There is nothing wrong with gender roles. I think, it's more important that children are taught tolerance instead of pretending that there is no such thing as gender specific behavior.

The University of Alabama?

Please don't answer if you go to Auburn (obviously biased :) I'm transferring to UA as a Sophomore in the Fall. I was wondering if anyone who went there or knows people who go there has any opinion of it? Did they like it? What were the pros and cons? Thanks!

Is there a way I can leave my parents?

My parents have been mistreating me since I was young but recently it's not just verble abuse it's physical to. My mother punched me twice in the face and almost every fight slams me against a wall or to the floor, I rarely fight back because it only escalates, my clothes are rarely washed and I only have one bra that doesn't fit me because I've had to use it for years, she constantly screams that I'm useless and her biggest regret is having me, my dad used to be on my side but he is almost as bad as her Now the other night trashing my room and calling me the c word just because I had a headache and didn't want to go out for tea. I'm currently 15 and I know that somedays like all teenagers I can be a brat and not want to do the dishes or something like that but my actions shouldn't worent the reactions I get, I wish to know if there is a way I can become emancipated or adopted out because this is unbearable.

Can you appreciate human history without racial bias?

Yes, I was watching some videos of English history and even though I have no English ancestry at all nor do I have any resemblance, I still enjoyed the videos.

Need help narrowing down our name list ?

Wow we have very similar name taste! I would go with Holly Madeline though it's just adorable. If I could get rid of any it would be Augusta (its lovely but sounds so dated) and I'd maybe get rid of Raine Aria only because I like the other names way better. But that's just me!

Can a case against a county government be directly filed and heard by a US District Court?

talk to your lawyer about this. County governments operate under state law, in theory you should file in state court.

For a sleepover me and my friend wanna watch...?

Zombieland and Shaun of the dead. I have seen both of them before at my dads house and i think they are HILARIOUS i havent seen them in awhile though, and raine saw zombieland abt 2 weeks ago but wants to watch shaun of the dead and zombieland again, the only problem though is im afraid my mom will say no cause we rlly want to watch it and we are only 13 and its rated R, except i've seen rated R movies with my mom but they are usually just for swearing and stuff like that not gore, what should i do?

How do I finish with someone who hurts me when I get too attached?

When I know I am being mistreated instead of finishing it, I go quiet and get worried. I put up with it & this had led me to physical abuse from partners in the past. It's like I can't DEMAND to be treated well or something. When he says 'if you go out dancing every again we're finished. I am not the sort that can say. Get lost then, instead, I don't dance..... I know he's not treating me well, but I told him, right don't phone tonight. Now, wierdly, I started missing him immediately, even though he threw me out of his house because I moved his ex's jumper from the spot he keeps it in. It's like ocd with him, he keeps 'memento's of everyone who's died or left him & his home is more & more like a shrine. He went crazy at me for moving an item, yet here I am - missing his voice & wishing we could of got married..... is it possible that some woman LIKE being treated bad? It's almost like he commands I respect him, so I do? I don't understand how to love myself enough to make ME be treated better?????

How come i always feel guilty afyer standing up for myself?! ?

People always tell me that I'm really sweet and that I'm such a good person and a good friend. I try my best to be all of these things, but there are times when I feel like people are taking advantage of my kindness and take it for weakness. I can stand up for myself, but when I do I always feel guilty like I'm doing something wrong. After I've said what I needed to say...I always question myself...like was I wrong...should I have just not said anything, etc. Why do I have this guilty conscience? I think I'm afraid that people won't love me anymore if I express my unhappiness with their behavior. I know I need to set boundaries for people, so they don't mistreat me, but why do I always end up feeling this way afterward? Alone, outcast, sad, guilty....like a bad person? I really need someone's advice..

My boyfriend is going to his ex's for dinner? please help me.?

My boyfriend of seven months tomorrow's mother is making him go to his ex girlfriend's house for dinner,about 2 months ago he told me that he still likes her and that he is attracted to her and her body and 2 months into our relationship i told him i felt like he needs to pay more attention to me because he told me he can't get over his girlfriend's,i told him i didn't want a boyfriend who can't get over someone while me and him together because i feel like he was more focused on them,anyway he deleted them all on facebook including the one that i don't like more than any of them,she still stares at us and he stared at her all the time,i told him that if he kept it up i would leave him because i feel mistreated and like the second thought besides her. He had contacted her behind my back on facebook because she asked him why he deleted her and he didn't tell me about it then i found out and he tryed to lie to me ( the lieng got me more) he broke my trust with him and now all of a sudden his mom who is very close to me is forcing him to go to her house for dinner?I don't understand why she would do something like this to me when she knows that i love her son and that i don't like the girl ( i have told her before) even though his ex's family and his are still family friend's it still makes me unconfortable knowing that he still had liked her. I told him to stop being a puss and stick up to his mom for once she can't make him do anything he doesn't want to do. If he gives in im thinking about leaving him. And honestly i feel like he will cheat on me sometime with her. I also feel he can't get over her no matter how much he say's he is over her. Girl's how you you feel and what would you do. I feel like im about to cry my eyes out. I don't know what to do or who to turn to.

What should I do, help?

I don't think your bipolar, but I think you might have anger management problems, which could be resulted from stress or maybe family problems? I don't know what has happened to you, and I don't want to force you to tell me, but it sounds like if you could find an outlet for your stress/anger, you wouldn't be facing these problems with the girl you like. There are many ways to release stress, like screaming into a pillow. or when she says something that bugs you, you can excuse yourself to the bathroom and scream into a towel. I think when she notices you're really trying to do better, she will want to hang out with you more.

Cat problem, socialising a stray?

I found a stray 6 weeks ago. A neighbour called thinking she was my cat Ruby who went missing 4 months ago. It wasn't her but I took her in as she was covered in parasites and her long fur was falling out, she was thin as a rake and in agony. I have been doing my law finals revision for the last 2 months, so I have spent about 2 hours a day with Grace (the name I gave her) I think she benefitted from the peace quiet and routine and she has blossomed, been treated for the critters and is in my outhouse which is warm cozy, furniture just like another room in the house really. I didn't want an infestation in my home and more imprtantly my boy cat fatty, son of Ruby is in the house. Fatty is the softest and sweetest natured cat ever, he helped his mum look after her second litter of kittens and is an absolute angel with other cats, he is such a happy little thing and I din't want him to feel dominated in his own home. Grace is also a softie, with me....but I have been bringing fatty into the outhouse every morning for half an hour. First time, he went up to her carefully but excited to find a new friend (he is spayed by the way so I know she cant be in fear of that) He's very careful to not appear threatening to her, very cautious, doesnt make eye contact and turns his back slowly to her which I know is a sign of trust, and a signal they want peace. Thing is she gets really funny with him, low growls and miowing loudly, although she hasnt tried to go for him, she's really not the type, you can tell shes been mistreated because she freaks out about really odd things like when I picked up a chair to move it once. Not sure whether these morning introductions are doing more harm than good, fatty is very quiet when he gets back in the house and just gives me this sad look. I really wanted to give her a home but I can't bring her in the house and I can't keep her in the outhouse forever she needs the kind of tender loving care I am giving her but from someone with no kids and no other pets...I think. What doesn everyone else think? Any experience of this? I want them BOTH to be happy, and I'm not prepared to compromise fattys happiness. I know If I got a kitten or something fatty would be all over it and theyd be best friends, I also know he's like to be friends with Grace,it's just not fair on him, or her. is there any hope here?

Is anyone willing to give their input on super-unique boy names?

We have 3 boys already whose names are: Quinton Valor Raine, Luken Stanley Frederick and Raleigh Bannon Roux. The middle names for our 4th boy will be John Darcy after grandfathers... Top choice so far is Cohen. I do not want to stick my child with the flavor name of the week so Dylan, Logan, Rylie and anything else of the sort is out. In needs to be different and something I have seldom heard. Tough one. Any ideas?

Football fans: What would you currently rate the football section?

I'm gonna be honest and say horrible. Only thing keeping me here is Bear Down's, Elkongd's and Jimmer's sense of humor and constant picking of the Lions, it's hilarious. The serious questions and answers are repetitive and biased as s**t. So for now this section is as bad as Megatron or Patriots Rock.

Ramadan: Why were the people of Lot destroyed?

I have a book which tells you the stories of the prophets (PBT) and it says this is one of the main reasons why he was sent to them. If people really believed and feared Allah they wouldnt commit these sins. I agree with what perfume said. Its also true that Lot was sent to the people because of their disbelief in God but the real message and lesson is becuase of the homosexuality of the people.

My dog is reactive on walks, what should I do?

my gsd use to do the same thing. i began training him to sit/stay or down/stay until the people and dog would pass. it took time and patience but he eventually got it and now when he sees a dog approaching, he will either go into a sit or down position and wait until they pass. if he gets up make him sit again. he is on a retractable leash and I keep it all the way retracted so I have control of his head and body. if he gets up, i immediately give a correction and make him sit back down. if he starts to bark, he gets a correction. if he does anything except stay in the sit or down position he gets a correction and gets put back into that position. we wait until the person passes, then he is allowed to proceed on the walk. if he starts to go back in the direction of the person and dog who passed, he gets a correction and goes back into the sit/down position until he settles down. you do this every time you pass someone whether they have a dog or not. it took me several weeks to get him past the lunging barking thing, but with patience and persistence he learned and we now can walk right by any dog or person without so much as a look in their direction.

Does the liberal bias of the MSM help or hurt Democrats?

At one time it probably helped. However now the the bias is so obvious, it appears that the networks are running Barry's reelection campaign. It hurts now.

Why is my cat scared of everyone but me?

I adopted a stray kitty (Luna) with my across the street friends Maddie and Piper. She ran up to us when she was a sick and skinny 3 month old. We fed her and took her to the humane society, got her fixed, got her shots, etc. and then adopted her. She's such a sweet kitty, and will snuggle with me and purr, and won't run away from me. She's an outdoor cat, and has fun out there and loves to run around outside, climb trees, and play. She loves me and I love her, and she loves Maddie and Piper, too. But everyone else, she is TERRIFIED of! She will hiss at anyone else, even if they are very nice. Or she gets really scared and runs away. Or she'll start to cry and run away looking for me, or Maddie, or Piper. She follows us, too, sometimes. I was wondering why she does this, being scared of everyone but us. Is it because she was mistreated when she was abandoned as a kitten, and so she didn't trust humans? And then we found her and saved her so she likes us, but only us? Also, Luna won't eat her food if Maddie, Piper, or I didn't get it for her.

Does this qualify as harassment?

Okay so we were walking back from a friends and he was being stupid and he ding dong ditched my neighbors house. We saw our friends car there so we figured it would be fun since he would come out and just screw around or whatever. Anyway the dad came out and he grabbed us and threatened to throw us down a storm drain while tearing and ripping off one of our shirts. Then he opened the storm drain gate and asked if we would like to spend a night down there. He then let us go and we were freaked out seeing as how it was all our friends fault, he grabbed us, he threatened us, and all of this after I never stepped foot on his property. Anyway, should i tell my parents about this. I feel like i was taken advantage of and mistreated without being given a chance to explain myself.

What are your favourite boy/girl names?

Out of yours I like Layla, Selena & Olive for girls and Max, Mason & Ryan for boys, favourites being Layla & Max. My own favourites are Niamh, Antonia & Alexa for girls and James, Nicholas & Alexander for boys.

Pick a girly name out of all of these?

Lila Raine (my middle name is Rain).Lilly is not a nice name, and it sounds worse as a middle name and does not flow with those names. But Lila is a VERY nice name...

Which middle name do you like best?

I do not like blair at all. My favorite is echo raine, but also you have to think about her. In the future she may think echo is confusing, and if her middle name was jessamine, she could go by jess. But if that isn't a factor, Echo Raine is a beautiful name.

What middle name goes with Lilliana?

I like rain spelled Lilliana Raine but give me more ideas. i like exotic weird names nothing like marie or lin

What is your opinion on gays?

I for one think it's STUPID . like say you like blue and your friend likes black there not a bad person. And don't talk about it being a sin because let's face it the people saying that have sinned because it wrong to mistreat people

Should we vote on whether the Obese should have the right to marry?

I mean, if people are such bias bigots to deny other adults the FREEDOM of choice on such matters, perhaps it shouldn't stop there: why not vote on whether the obese have the right to marry, vote on whether inter-religious have the right to marry...the union of two different religions is an abomination is it not? Why not vote whether its illegal to wear blue on tuesday and red on thrusday...it would cut back on innocent bystander deaths caused by gangs. Lets vote on whether or not we want and need the Constitution while we are at it...why not, seems people are heading in that direction by will anyway? come on quiters, lets have some commitment here and go all the way!!!

Could the perceived 'bias' against conservative women in the media be explained simply that?

They get alot of media attention because they say provocative, controversial and sometimes really, really stupid things which you dont often see liberal women in politics. So the public view these conservative women specifically bachmann, coulter and palin as interesting, different and sometimes amusing, definitely controversial and therefore story worthy? Think about it.

Rate these names??? Thanks!?

I think I like Karissa (KUH riss UH) instead of Arissa... I like Sienna but not MAriah. I mean MAriahs ok but..\:

Got friend to end his engagement... How do I get him to cheer up?

You wouldn't have been able to talk him out of this unless he already had reservations. She seems hideous, so he probably wouldn't have gone through with it either way. You are now the scape goat, the one he can blame when his family and her family are all hysterical and upset and need someone to curse for this. You're a good friend by putting yourself out there like that.

Is this the reason why my cousin acts the way she does?

She is 3 and a half years old. She cries a lot and always wants to visit me and she always whine sand tries to get my attention. She does this by hitting my younger children(ages 2 and 3)and when I yell at her for it she cries. I suspect she does this because her mother never gives her attention and mistreats her, I remember her mother visiting me and the child was scared of my cat and she cried and screamed trying to get away from it and then her mother yelled at her. She also gets very tense around her mother. Is it because she shows her little to no attention or is it something else?

Should I take back my Nexus S for an Evo 3D?

I've had my Samsung Nexus S for ALMOST 30 days and sure enough something better in my eyes comes out--the HTC Evo 3D. My Nexus is a sexy phone, but it has certain issues with simple hardware. The Software is excellent, however, and speeds are pretty good. The HTC Evo 3D seems like a more solid phone with the perk of 3D imaging. However, I've heard that the Evo 3D has reception and connectivity issues. So please Answers community tell me, such I keep my Nexus S or exchange for the HTC Evo 3D? Non-biased opinions! At least try.

Why are people in and from Latin-America considered less human by some in Mexico?

Mexico brutally enforces it's southern border, and if you're an illegal alien, second offense is 10 years in prison. Meanwhile Mexico imports it's poverty to us. People coming up from south of Mexico are typically robbed and the women raped. How come you don't hear about this on the news, I wonder?

I need to know ps3 or xbox 360?

i would pick the ps3 because you can watch movie and put CD movie in there but im not sure about the xbox360

How does this part of my story sound?

Well I'm not going to beat around the bush, so I'll just tell you right away - having a character wake up from a nightmare has become one of the biggest cliches you could have. It's simply not an effective hook. Then I noticed the tense change as well. Definitely work on keeping it consistent. Good luck to you.

Im black guy and i never had a black girlfriend?

Don't ask me why because i really don't know. All i know is that ever since i been 14 i had 4 white girlfriends, 1 asian, 1 latina, and one white/latina girlfriend. I also have mess with a couple of other girls that are not black. Now that im 23 i just met this Beautiful african american girl. She is 20. But she is really sensitive. Her father was assaulted by white cops when she was 2 years old. Her mother used to work for this Chinese lady that treated her bad. Her brother got shot by some latino gang bangers. And her ex bf who mistreated her left her for a white girl. No offense but shes like a walking stereotype testimonial of a beat down black woman. So because of that she feels blacks should stick together as one. She is not racist she is more insecure. Anyways one time my ex bump into me. She was white. And the girl i like was kind of o.k. But what she think when she finds out i never dated a black girl.

Do you think this is unfair?

I've already hated school but my hated just reached a new level.. So it's my final year of highschool- I got my marks and everything. The whole semester I had an 80 in English I finished 95% of my work on time and I ended up getting a 60 on my IRP which is shocking to say the least. I worked really hard on it but I thought my presentation would raise my mark up because I honestly thought I did awesome on it...well guess not. And then the final exam I thought I would AT LEAST get a 75 because in my mind it was well written, informative and well organized.. then I found out I got a 64 on it. I don't know why my teacher suddenly changed her attitude towards me. When at the beginning I was writing the exact same way and got 80's for my work. Now I finished the class with a 72. My friend who didn't do any of the work and the work she did do was around 6 weeks late finished the class with a 70. I got an 83 last year in English so I think this teacher is being biased towards me... Is it smart to contact the principal?

Is this the reason why my cousin acts the way she does?

She is 3 and a half years old. She cries a lot and always wants to visit me and she always whine sand tries to get my attention. She does this by hitting my younger children(ages 2 and 3)and when I yell at her for it she cries. I suspect she does this because her mother never gives her attention and mistreats her, I remember her mother visiting me and the child was scared of my cat and she cried and screamed trying to get away from it and then her mother yelled at her. She also gets very tense around her mother. Is it because she shows her little to no attention or is it something else?

Getting high on cough syrups and tablets?

Take about 12 mucinex, trust me that **** will give you the best high ever. I took 9 last summer and I'm only 120 and it ****** my **** up, haha get the dm kind. Cause of all the sudafed (however you spell it). Just make sure you have a bunch of water because I got landed in the hospital with severe dehydration. Trust me, its an indescribable high

Why is evolution taught as fact?

I've always wondered why schools teach the theory of evolution as fact, and disregard the bible. No real biased opinion, just curious.

Should I be worried that my husband said this at work?

You can't believe everything that you hear. Because the lady that told you about it the first time is she truly someone that you can trust? A man is going to look but the way you are talking about he could have been a little more respectful. You know that it is things that you are doing and the way that you act toward your husband. Like for instant you say that you yell at him. Why? It's a lot of thing's you need to work on within yourself as well as he does too. You need to stop stressing also and think about the baby. Why don't you fix a nice dinner for you and your husband or even go out to dinner and try to work things out.And stop fussing so much. Try being nicer and you will see and feel a whole lot better. Good Luck.

Do you considered this abuse or am I overreacting?

First of all, my husband has been abusive (I think) for most of our marriage. I have been scared to leave and other times things get better. He had an affair a few years ago and he agreed to go to counseling. The counselor thought he might be bi-polar so he sent him to a psychiatrist. So okay - that might explain a lot of the violent behavior. I have had my blouses torn, money hidden, car keys taken, phone broken, a cat that we loved thrown outside to be eaten (my daughters cat), tires slashed, a dog we loved thrown off the deck cause he got mad at her, I could go on and on. Threatened that if I left everything would be broken and he would find me. Well since the diagnosis he has been mostly better. I have chalked it up to dealing with a sick man. I have tried to be supportive but I am at my end now. Here is the current situation: my daughter, her boyfriend and their baby moved in temporarily. he had a rule don't leave soft drinks laying around downstairs. thats fine. But he blew up because there was one in the GARBAGE CAN with a lid on it. Then he blew up cause he they left one downstairs overnight. Granted it is lazy not to take it upstairs and throw it away. the boyfriend was lazy a few times - but he did throw them away the next day. well before the final blow up, my cat of 14 years was being mistreated by the other bigger cat. according to my husband she was really messed up. So I said separate them, the kids are taking the other cat when the move (which was in a couple of weeks). He said okay - then when I got home from work he told me that the cat was in the field. Huh? apparently he did not separate them and the cat went after the other cat again. well my husband got mad. the cat ran downstairs and hid but my husband yanked him out of his hiding place and strangled him. Too much anger I think. there was no reason for that. He could have put the other one in the crate or in the bedroom til I could get home and take care of it. It was senseless. Then a month later - my kids were packing to move all weekend. everything was okay at this point. we had moved on somewhat. My husband waited til they went to work then went downstairs. mind you everything is in disarray - packing usually does that. Well he saw one can on the desk and flipped. He wrote in red marker on an important document' this don't belong here'. I just begged please let it go - they are moving in 4 days. he said he don't care and he is going to do worse. So he picked a trash can and poured the trash on their floor by their bed (in the walkway) and took another trash bag and put it on their bed and left it there all day. He says it was justified. when my daughter got home she blew up and left abruptly with the baby and said they will never step foot in the house again. And thats been true for 4 months now. She is afraid what my grandbaby will see or hear. or even be hurt. I don't think he will hurt our grandbaby but who knows. I did not think he would kill my cat either. So since I have to go visit my grandbaby where she lives he decided that until I fix it, he is going to torment me about until I break. He said that I have to agree that it was right. and until I do he is going to make argue with me until i break. And he said that since I caused the problem that I have to fix it. doesn't sound like a sane person does it. I said I understand that you got upset, but I will never agree that it was right the way it was handled. You don't belittle somebody like that. So then he poured trash on our living room floor at 5:00 am Sat, pushed me, and grabbed me. I had to leave at 5 in the morning because i had to get away. Yesterday broke some sentimental items in the driveway (which I am sure everybody heard). He is spending money like it is water and says he won't do anything around the house until I admit he is right. It had died down for a couple of weeks but he is now ticked off cause none of his kids called him yesterday. Nobody knows when he is likely to snap. He doesn't think that coming in from work at 3:00 in the morning waking me up and yelling at me about something I cannot control is not abuse. I think him trying to tell me what to say and think is abuse. I also think that him blaming me for anything that is wrong with the kids and our relationship is abuse. he is not making any effort to correct anything. in fact he said that I owe him an apology for ruining our marriage. huh? I tried to keep peace and he just wants to push things as far as he can. Am I overreacting? Does this sound like abuse to you? I tried to explain that if it was just the trash thing it would have been no big deal. But its his history. and how he continually torments me now. He just keeps saying that no adult can be mentally abused by another adult. He just laughs. He doesn't get the big picture.

Would if be cheesy to give my story this title?

A Chance of Rain, after the main characters Chance and Raine. I haven't even started writing the story yet, but I have a plot that is constantly changing. Anyways, what are your opinions?

Are you scared to have kids (i dnt think i ever want kids because i am scared something bad might happen)?

Don't. Wait until you feel the time is right and when you do, a mother always knows, then you will be ready. I hope this helps.

6 Week Old Kitten With Diarrhoea PLEASE HELP.?

So before i start yes i KNOW he is way to young to be away from mum but the previous owner refused to keep him and was mistreating him and his sister, i have taken both of them in and i am doing the best i can with them. they are both very energetic, lively and playful, using the litter box and have both been eating and sleeping fine until today the male of the two has got diarrhoea really bad and was eating this morning but at his last feed he did not eat anything and btw i have NOT given him cows milk at all, just water and KRM. He is still himself being playful and lovely. I have already made him an appointment at the vet for Monday morning but i was wondering if there was anything anyone could tell me to help him in the mean time, any help would be really appreciated. One last thing him and his sister were wormed for the first time yesterday, could this have anything to do with it? thanks in advance x

Is P or Program auto mode not sufficient for every situation?

No auto mode is sufficient for every situation. The only mode that is sufficient for every situation is Manual mode.

Why do so many people believe that religion is entirely an outward reflection?

"inward spiritual relationship to God" You do realize that this 'relationship' is a figment of your mind, right? What you are saying here is that our emotional systems are just as valid as our intellectual systems in determining reality. Emotions are reactions, critical thoughts are proactions. The concept of God is using emotion to fill in the gaps in our intellect. This can be very dangerous to your psyche in practice, as it is a crutch that you will rely upon to make critical decisions. A more healthy route would be to develop your critical thinking skills and use them to replace emotion when making critical decisions.

How come NOM's poll shows 57% of New Yorkers opposed to gay marriage.........?

This sort of nonsense is generally referred to as "poll-pushing"- when biased or inaccurate data is presented as a poll in an attempt to give it an air of legitimacy. The response to a poll depends very much on who you ask.

Why doesn"t my dad understand me?

I just turned 19 and I have an older brother(22) that did not graduate highschool, went to jail and got alot of tattoos, came home and smoked weed, then went back to jail till 2017. My older sister(21) lives in a fantasy world and did not graduate highschool.She smokes weed and has tattoos also and does not want to listen to my parents because she says she is grown. Myself on the other hand have graduated highschool in 2010. I was an excellent football player but i quit because i didnt want to play for that high school i was moved to by my parents, i could have boxed and went pro but i got side tracked in the streets. i went to a community college just for the financial aid money mainly because i didnt want to study there because it was high school all over again...My dad always said none of his 3 kids are different as i went through high school after both my bro and sis dropped out....I tried to prove to him that i am different by getting my high school diploma despite of the mistakes i have made. i did go and get some tattoos and he got mad at that and said im no different from my bro and sis...he moved me to alabama and i got a job as a cartpusher at walmart. i contributed my money in this household for six months. i then quit because that was not what i wanted to do with my time and i felt that i was being mistreated at work. but all he did was walk away from me with no words..that hurt me. pretty soon in july i will be going to job corps where i will study auto tech. and my dad still tells people that none of his kids are different when i am the only one making an effort to do something with myself. my bro is in jail and my sis is house hopping.becuz she think she grown.. and im here about to go to job corps and make something of myself but i am still always to him just like my bro and sis... he wont speak to me about it he just ignores me and it hurts my feelings. someone please respond.thx

Could books written in first person really have Mary-Sue characters?

I am not talking about the main character but the main character's opinion of other characters. Since it is a biased view, could there be Mary-Sues in first person books?

Why doesn't FOX focus on Colbert like they do with Stewart?

I understand that Stewart has a liberal bias but the Colbert Report is even more biased. Why are they so focused on the Daily Show with Jon Stewart.

Which name do you like for a girl?

Rachel Catherine seems to be the most contemporary name. Not a huge fan of Auburn or Raine. So I choose Rachel Catherine. Although I think Aubrey Catherine or Aubrey Rachel would be super cute.

How many women appreciate, have, or appreciate tattoos?

I find some fascinating and some so very vulgar, however, I do appreciate the art work of the drawings. I always said I would get me one, but I know I never will, for it is not something a girl does, but something a man does. Perhaps that is why, all my older brothers have them. =P

Third & fourth child on the way... naming ideas?

For the girls, I like Cecilia and Lillian best. For the boys, Nicholas and Elliot best. My least favorites are probably Vita and Sasha, but other than that I think they're all nice names. Congrats on your twins!! :)

Moms who work part time, who keeps your baby?

I'm lucky, I get to take both my kids to work with me (I sub at a foster home). But I also believe that socialization is super important for little ones. You can always try the daycare program on a trial basis, and discuss with your husband how you feel about it after the trial period ends... Good luck!

Parents of circumcised sons, what would you do if you're son(s) resented being circumcised?

First, I'd learn the difference between your & you're. "what would you do if you're (you are) sons..." doesn't make sense. And second, I didn't circumsize my son & his bitterness over it when he is older is one of the reasons I didn't.

What are your thoughts on if gays/lesbians/bisexuals go to hell when they pass away?

Pfft. There is nothing wrong with being gay. Until theists can actually prove this "hell" thingy actually exists, they can shut up about gay people going there when they die.

Sorta religious / Karma?

So I've had this sort of paranoia or superstition I guess. So im christian and I believe in God, but what I've worried is a tad confusing and let me know if you don't understand. So you know the saying what goes around comes around? Well I always had a worry that say you mistreat someone or you commit a sin, would God punish you while you're on Earth, say like make things go bad in your life not like anything severe but I mean little things here and there. I don't know how to explain it but for a while I've been self conscious and worried that if I did little sins here and there that God would make little things here and there go bad? Can someone like explain to me how thats is or isn't true, it bugs me all day every day.

The physical relationship to the physical , how can I mature my perception?

Sounds to me like the guy was a cold priick to you. Don't let him off with it. You may not get to confront him, but don't excuse him either. Shame on him.

My mom won't let me date anyone outside of my religion?

I like this guy, he likes me. My dad would be okay with us dating, but not my mom. She only wants me to date people of my religion, even though I'm not that involved with my religion. I'm 18 and today she came out and stalked me because I was an hour late coming home from working out. She doesn't like the guy that I like, and she biased herself against him in her own little world even though she doesn't even know him. I've never done anything wrong... I haven't gotten drunk, never been to parties, never did drugs, never smoked, never had sex, I haven't even had a bf or my first kiss yet! And she doesn't trust me at all! It really sucks ): I like him a lot and we can't do anything because it would be awkward and complicated. What do I do? ): My mom is always mad at me for talking to him or hanging out with him because she thinks I'm not "loyal" to her anymore. She needs to give me some space!! ):

Why am I suddenly getting my period twice a month?

Ever since I could remember I've had my period once a month. In April I had it from the 7th to the 13th. Then in May I had it from the 2nd to the 7th. That's fine. It was just one week. One the 29th of May I had my period once again all the way to June 4th. Today I wake up and I have my period again and since my periods are a week I expect it to last until July 2nd. I'm 19 BTW. I'm a virgin and I've never fingered myself or put anything down there like a vibrator or a tampon for me to bleed like that. I've never been to the gynecologist either. Am I under some stress? Yes. I live in an abusive home where my mother and brother continuously bully and mistreat me everyday. I'm saving up money for the fall so I can leave and live in a dorm. I try to exercise 5 times a week by jogging for 4 days for 45 minutes each and walking the fifth day. I try to eat healthy too. This morning and yesterday I had onions, tomatoes, canned green beans, and canned corn on top of lettuce with a side of water. Today I had french bread with butter and milk on the side. So why is it that I'm having two periods a month?

This or That: tacky names?

Heaven - Mckenna - Bree - Emma-lee - Kenya - Paris - Blue - Jazmyn - Skye - Lulu - Destiny - November Ahhaaa :)

Why does everyone in england think haye will win so easily?

fair enough he could win but people are making it out like klitschko has no hope at all like hes a nobody ...why are the media so bias do they think he cant lose because hes english ...

Should i keep fighting...?

So i am like in love with this guy. His name is Raine and we have been off and on for like 7 months. Well he would always say he loves me he would never leave me... We were even gonna get married at one point... Now that summer is here and we r out of school he dumped me and went after some 7th grader and we r going to be a softmore... He has told me its jus not there anymore but yet he an sit there and kiss me and hug me like nothing is rong. I love him sooooo much more than my own life....Should i keep fighting for him or jus let him go?

Is politifact REALLY unbiased or does it have a slant?

I consider Politifact to be pretty neutral. Most of the people who claim that Politifact is liberal are the same ones who claim that FOX really is "fair and balanced".

What do you think of these names?

I think that they are really sweet , For short the boy could be called Dec' & the girl name 'Callie' sounds nice to go with it (: x

How much do most liberals even know about conservative beliefs?

I think that fear is the primary conservative motivator. They're afraid of change, afraid of people who don't remind them of themselves, afraid of ideas that challenge their conventional wisdom. They want to go back to an imaginary, ideal past depicted by Leave It To Beaver and The Andy Griffith Show.

Can you guys give me advice on this thing I wrote?

I Don't Know About Anybody Else But I LIKED It A Lot . You Should Listen To Rap Artists Like J.Cole, And Wale You Kind Of Favor Them . Which Is Good In My Eyes Because That Means You'll Make It Far If This Is Something You Are Trying To Pursue.

Does anyone hear her? (Long)?

She is running a hundred miles an hour in the wrong direction. I love that song. I'm glad to see your handling stress in a good way by writing. I know how you feel. I feel like the whole world is falling apart also. Everything will be okay in the end. If its not. It's not the end.

Training a horse to lope...need help?

Great Question! Many horses, or unfinished horses struggle to make their horses canter. My baby, is just getting started and I find that when I canter, I like to canter in a small circle cutting off half the ring. Horses can't gallop a circle. They can only canter a circle. When doing this, apply pressure with your inside leg and lift your inside rein. This will allow your horse to bend around a circle. If you are comfortable, you may use drawreins while cantering. This slows my horse down ALOT and i'm sure it would slow yours down to. Make sure when you are cantering, you are sitting back. Roll your tummy in and make sure your bum is against the back of the saddle. This will make for better transitions. If you are not experienced or have no experience with draw reins, please don't give them a try. They work! They can also be harmful in untrained hands. Make sure you are not squeezing your horse with your legs. If they need momentum to go, use you inside leg instead of your outside. My western pleasure mare will go faster with the outside leg, but when pressure is applied with the inside, she keeps going, but at the same rate! Hope you are your horse establish your lope :)

Why are Teacher Assistants treated so poorly?

I am a college student and work for DC Public Schools as a Teacher Assistant. I can't believe how poorly TAs are treated throughout the school district. It is the culture of the school system to mistreat their very valuable overworked, underpaid, and faithful helpers. The TAs are with the students more than the teachers. The TAs wears many hats around the school but do not receive the dignity and respect that they deserve. Why is this behavior condone? What can we do to change this culture?

What does this question mean? READ DESCRIPTION PLEASE :)?

It is pretty much asking whether or not they were able to empathize with the Native Americans. "To what extent" is asking if they were able to empathize greatly, somewhat, or not at all. It is pretty much leaving it open to all answers to make sure that you know the true answer.

Am i out of the line, or are they? ?

I recently just moved in with my brother and his girlfriend, bcuz my boyfriend was mistreating me. Anyway I have lived with them before, they are charging me rent $300/mo. Including $25 a week for food. Which is fine, but my brothers girlfriend is always ***** at me about stupid stuff allllll the time it is very annoying! Like for example one night she had asked me when I got home from work to wash off my plate and put it in the dishwasher and start it, I said ok. Well, I got home and she was sitting on the couch I said hi and she just ignored me, I finished eating and went to put my dish in the washer but there was no room so I figure I would just wash it myself put it away and start it no biggie. Well she asked my what I was doing I explained and she got all pissy and started shoving dishes around in the washes just to fit this dish I had already washed. Then my brother calls me the next day while I'm at work and told me I was being too loud last night. I told him it was your girlfriend, and he said she said it was you! Other things she does is one day I forgot to put away the cereal box after I was done with it bcuz I was running late to work and I have to take the bus. She sends me a picture of it and asks me what's wrong with this picture, I'm like seriously just put it away. She get made when I'm in the kitchen bcuz I "leave crumbs" I always wipe up after myself but whatever so I just basically stay in my room unless I have to get ready for work, I've lost ten pound bcuz I don't like to eat around them bcuz I'm afraid she'll ***** about something. So tonight I went out to the kitchen (she's sleeping) I went to open the fridge and she had cut out an article on house rules when you take family members in about helping to clean taking out the trash keep your space tidy and so on. It really pissed me off bcuz one I pay rent I should be able to at least just take care of me and my stuff not the whole house 2 bcuz she just did that to be a ****** and 3 if they want to charge me rent then they should treat me like a renter and stay out of my room I leave them alone they should leave me alone my brother is always saying how I need to make my bed, I'm like I'm paying rent stay out of my room.

Why is Sauron made out to be evil in Lord of the Rings?

I don't see why everyone makes him out to be such a bad guy, he just led a revolt of an underprivileged, mistreated group of minorities against a tyrannical, racist, spiteful oppressor using the only non segregated army in the world at the time. I feel like he should be a hero for getting land and food for orcs, uruk hai, goblins and trolls and their probably starving children. Even if he did use violent means to get this, looking at it from his perspective makes his cause seem quite just

Why does my baby fuss when I pick him up from Dad? :(?

Baby wants to stay with ex, is tired of all your singing songs and playing games. Likes dad better.

What is your view on homosexuality?

EVERYONE IS ENTITLED TO THEIR OPINIONS! I personally dont like it. I think God (and if your atheist of do not believe in God then nature) created men and women for a reason. Because its the only way to repopulate. I dont like how gays march around with little parades and complain about how theyre mistreated. I hate that they want it to be called marraige. I dont care if theyre gay but just dont call it marriage. Marriage if between a man and a woman. Tell me what you think. Combat this or agree with it.

Does this promote gender equality?

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Is it fair to say that the study of evolution subscribes to no agenda but the study, whereas creation "science?

Speaking as an agnostic, I find both sides very devoted to their agendas. Academia has an almost militant devotion to proving evolution and disproving creationism. Creationists seem to want to latch onto every tiny scrap of truth, half truth and innuendo then trumpet their view as proven fact. Neither camp seems to be open to a true unbiased interpretation of the data.

What can be done about libya?

let me explain what i mean is after khaddafi is gone what type of government should the libyan people have, one that continues to mistreat them or one that tries everyday to improve the way of life for everyone.

How can the justice dept. sue for asking for too much documentation before hiring?

I think problem is asking for additionaI papers outside of what the fed law said to ask for. If they just stick to the papers that they are suppose to ask for there shouldn't be any problem because they can always argue that they are just asking for the papers they are being told to ask for.

(please help) I'm really nervous about my dog staying in a kennel for the first time?

Please stop worrying about your dog he will be fine,They are the experts , and believe me they will make sure your dog is cared for ,walked, played with ,and fed and watered well.......You can phone them anytime they will be happy to reassure you...........................

Getting Over An Ex Help?

so me and this girl back two years and its no question i've never loved anybody more than her. we liked eachother when we fisrt started getting to know one another but didnt date cuz she had a bf at the time. we stayed friends, i fell for her and awhile later we had a huge fight which we stopped talking for 6 months. one night she came up to me and apologized for everything and we became friends again. a week after i realized i still had feelings for her. this time around she was single but really involved in school and a few months later she started to act really weird and awkward toward me which led to me getting frustrated to the point where i just snapped. i was sick of being mistreated by her and even after i snapped all our friends actually took my side. they said shes bi - polar, crazy forget about her etc. so i did, the past few months we act professional at work around one another but that's it. the thing is, is that i don't want her anymore. i'd be an absolute tool if i even forgave her again for what she had done. the way i see it, she already blew her 2nd chance. i even look at her now and am like yeah i really don't even see her like that anymore either. at the same time though i miss her. and even thinking back to things like of her with someone else kinda bothers me. not where im like jealous but i dont even know its confusing. i never really got a real answer as to why she started acting the way she did toward me and have been debating for weeks about writing her a letter just letting her know how i feel. ive constantly been dreaming about her alot too. it feels like yeah im ready to move on, i dont want to be with her, but im having trouble completely letting go. perhaps its just i dont want to let go of the feeling of being in love with her. so yeah any advice at all with that would be appreciated

Most confusing relationship delima of my entire life :(?

As a girl, I often wonder why girls who have a perfectly nice boyfriend will go for the guy who's hurt them, abused them, or is a general douchebag. What is the allure there? I've seen guys do the same thing, but not to the degree that girls do. Maybe it's a self-esteem thing. Stay with the nice guy. Realize that you left the other one for a reason, save yourself the heartache.

Evolutionists: Where are all the transitional fossils?

So, you are saying that only a few dozen T-Rex's lived since we have only found about that many of them. Also, there were obviously only a few thousand other dinosaurs in total. Ever. Are you the product of a brother/sister relationship? Most bones break down over time; few are fossilized. Percentages are against finding most transitional fossils, especially those which led to man. Our ancestors, much like us, tended to kill anything that they saw as threatening, and any relative species would have either competed for resources or just been an object of annihilation. They would not have carefully placed the bones so they would fossilize. You should go back and get a better education.

For a sleepover me and my friend wanna watch...?

Zombieland and Shaun of the dead. I have seen both of them before at my dads house and i think they are HILARIOUS i havent seen them in awhile though, and raine saw zombieland abt 2 weeks ago but wants to watch shaun of the dead and zombieland again, the only problem though is im afraid my mom will say no cause we rlly want to watch it and we are only 13 and its rated R, except i've seen rated R movies with my mom but they are usually just for swearing and stuff like that not gore, what should i do?

What is America's problem (Americans and foreigners alike may answer) in your opinion - lengthy, but worth it?

they forgot the most important thing in life,you have to put in a days work for a days pay ,you have to pay you bills and have the money to do it in the bank, you do not buy what you can not pay for,you can not live like a rich man on a poor man's pay. THIS APPLIES TO THE U.S. GOVERNMENT TOO . you can not get into wars you have no right to.

How to continue a story after losing inspiration?

When I am feeling uninspired or having writers block, I read a quick excerpt from a book or listen to music.

Should i break up with him?

I have been dating this guy for 3 years now . We re both 25 . He s nice to me ,he goes out of his way for me , and im his first gf. he only had one night stands before me .Im the first he s had feelings for and the first one he s ever kissed.He s paid for a lot of expensive stuff i wanted even though he was broke,he never complains when i mistreat him,he tells me how he feels about me,he has cancelled jobs just to see me even though he has money problems.He quit his job(he s a model) for a year when we first met&was with me 24/7.He never lets me go when i tell him its over,he cries&begs.And lots of other things that prove he loves me.But there are things i dont like .For example , i only get to see him once a week for 2 hours because he s busy(even though we live 30 mins away form each other ) and we talk on the phone only for like 10mins a day .He lies all the time about where he is . For example he stold me many times he was asleep and then i found out he was out clubing .I ve seen photos of him with slut *y girls at clubs where they re all over him. He says he didnt do anything .He s cancelled dates with me telling me he was at his grandma's & then i found out he was at the beach. And yesterday i found out he was lying about going to the gym every saturday for 3 years ! His gym is closed on saturday! We also never had sex together even though he s not a virgin , nor does he want to get married .He only wants bjs . His has never taken me out,we always sit in his car at the beach.And yesterday i was on a date with him . On the way back, he stared at some girls .He s done that before . He also hit me once and i got in the hospital. Im really heartbroken and i need the opinion of people who dont know me , because friends just take sides . Excuse my english ,im not american.

Do you see potential in this fictitious tale?

I think its really good! Its a brilliant story line and well written. I would definitely read it if it got published!

How do I tell my Mother I'm quitting the family business?

My mother runs a real estate business and I've been working as a receptionist for her since October when I had to quit my job due to being severely mistreated. It was always meant to be a temporary thing, and she always told me when you're ready to leave just let me know when you're starting to look. There's been a really high turnover rate here. At times there would only be my mother, myself and one other employee. Since I've started she's fired two people here and two people have quit. I really want to leave. I need to branch out and regain my independence. I don't like having my mother write my paycheck. Our relationship is far too personal. I got called for a job interview today and I don't know how to tell her that I need to leave. I don't want her to resent me, but I'm just not made for the corporate lifestyle. I'm not happy here. In fact, I feel bored and understimulated. Any suggestions on how to have this conversation with her would be great.

Is Raine pronounced the same as Rain?

I just looked it up thinking to meaning would be "rain" instead it says Queen and the origin is french, so how do you pronounce it?

I don't know what to tell people anymore....?

Why don't you tell them you just haven't found the right girl yet?? Other than that im not much help, but keep your head up. If you are as great as you say one day someone will notice...

Why are you a Democrat?

i'm not but some of my idiotic family are and they are broke waiting on their govmint checks....I am wealthy because of hard work

What is the definition of art?

What is art? Is there one definition? Also do you think the art historians' interpretation of paintings are correct or are they seeing some things through their own bias or what they would like to see? Are artists as thoughtful as they are made out to be or are some of their works rather impulsive and emotional? Or maybe just what they think will look good or interesting? Thanks.

Why cant America legalize same sex marriage on a national level?

its 2011 people seriously shouldn't still be homophobic... maybe I'm a little biased what are peoples opinions?

Why am I so in love with her, and what can I do about it? She and I have the most amazing relationship....?

Here's a story for all the saps out there (I say that with respect :) ) Its a classic story. I'm just about 18, she turned 17 recently. She lives right down the street, and more often than not, I'm at her house. I can walk into her house without knocking and if she's not there either her mom or her sister or her brother will be there and they treat me just like family. Out of all of her incredible traits, she has a large flaw: She is dating an idiot. (PS this sounds like a corny love story I'm making up but you've gotta just believe me) He and she have gotten together and broken up at least four times, honestly I've lost count. Everytime things go sour between them I'm always there for her, for comfort, for a shoulder to cry on, and for a listening ear. I know she appreciates it, and I feel tremendous satisfaction in helping her feel better, but then she goes off and just starts the whole cycle over again! After this most recent breakup, nothing changed between them. They just keep acting all desperate for each other and romantic. I'm not being biased, either, he is just COMPLETELY WRONG for her. Everyone sees it. He is whiny around her, awkward, annoying, and frankly, a wimp, ask anyone. I DO NOT KNOW why she still likes him. Now you may think "Ok kid, you're hurting yourself, find someone who appreciates and likes you back". But here's the thing. When she isn't with him, and specifically when its just me and her, we connect like magic! There is something between that just makes us 100% compatible, I have talked about it with her. She agrees that I'm 10 times better for her, (her words) and even said that she really shouldn't be dating him, that it goes against her common sense. THIS IS WHY I DON'T UNDERSTAND GIRLS. I think me and her in all honesty would be entirely happy if we got married. I have an endless supply of affection for her, and maybe its the same for her, I dunno. While this boy sits and whines and makes her sad and angry on Valentines Day, I buy her her favorite little raspberry chocolates and a card. I sometimes buy her chocolate when she just is having a bad day (often because of her stupid boyfriend and PMS and all that stuff I am so glad I don't have to deal with). It is all because I care SO MUCH about her, not some petty obligation. I'm making her sound bad but don't you dare think that about her, because honestly she is only dumb when she's with him. If you're still with me this far into my little narrative, seriously thank you for reading, I'm almost done. Here is this last recent development. She and her boy are unofficially dating again, they spend time together, hold hands, maybe kiss I really don't know what they do, but they're "together" again. Stupid. I don't really pay any attention because its not new to me. So me and her (just me and her) are going to watch a movie with a couple of friends we know, but her boyfriend doesn't. We get there and actually I was the only boy, which was cool and weird and the same time. So naturally the four girls who are there decide on watching a chick flick, which I was all right with, if it means I get to sit next to her. Right in the middle of "How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days" she leans her head on my shoulder, to get comfortable or to snuggle I dunno, but seriously, I was in heaven; I could not have been happier! Then she throws a pillow into my lap and lays her head in the pillow, and puts her hand up onto my leg, like you would if you were sleeping, but also kind of like an invitation, and I took it. I laid my hand on hers and sort of stroked her back with the other. It was an awkward position for me but honestly I didn't care! She had never done anything like this before with me, EVER. And the best part was she didn't flinch away or anything, maybe she even liked it, I dunno! I felt like the luckiest guy in the world! The rest of the movie party and afterwards was awesome, we got along so great like we always do and I fell asleep smiling huge. :-D Ever since she has changed a little with me. I was giving her a hand massage (I do that sometimes when she gets particularly bad headaches) and her fingers seem more inclined than usual to curl over mine as I'm working on her hand. Its just little things like that, and it feels like there is a small hint of romance in our rock solid, amazing friendship that we've built for three years. Unfortunately she still totally acts stupid for her boyfriend, totally different than anytime when she isn't with him. So now I don't know what to do, because we sort of snuggled (loosely defined, and I feel silly for calling it that, but that's what it was pretty much) but she still has a boyfriend; and its not me. And I'm afraid it won't ever be me! If you're still reading this you have my sincere thanks, please give me your honest opinion. What do

2 year old dog barks excessively and bites - advice wanted.?

Find a treat that she loves and when she acts up say calm down and when she does give her a treat. If u keep doing this your dog will relise that if she wants a treat she is going to have to calm down.

I'm just curious, who do you think will win the 2012 Presidential Election? Obama or a Republican candidate?

I'm leaning toward a conservative because I think people have realized Obama promised a lot more than he can give. He put us into more debt than we can handle so I think people will try for another drastic change.

Oh useful idiot President pupet just wanna have fuhun, Obama forget the age of his kids, was it Bachmans fault?

I agree that Bachmann would make a really great President. Heck I would vote for her in a heart beat. But Ron Paul is the one that I feel deserves the Presidency. There is no one out there with the will and determination that he has. You know he wants to bring America back to its roots. That is exactly what we need.

A Baby Girl Name List. This or That?

Emma, Autumn, Skye, Alexis, Aidrienna (maybe Adrianna , or Adrienne), Sophia, Catherine, Paige, Elaina, Jennifer, Lydia, Delainie? (maybe, Melanie). Cassidy, Daisy, Kristen, Gracelan ? (Grace), Paris, London. <3 and Lydia is cute, but October,,,, not so hot..

Depression...): please help. ?

If you are depressed you need to get sunlight and spend time with people how smile a lot. If you want people who smile to like you then you need to learn 5 or 6 really good smiles yourself. What you give the world is what you will accept back in return.

He abused me, why is he trying so hard to get me back now?

In this day and age women can get jobs and there are Government departments to help abused women. So they aren't a dime a dozen like the old days when a woman needed a man to pay her way or she'd starve. He can't find someone to abuse, so he knows you took it once and possibly will again. It is a challenge for him to get you back in spite of everything, so that's why he is trying. Take his advice and stop talking to him. You might hear that he has someone else and he's treating her great, but it will only be a short time before he starts abusing her too. If she stays with him for 10 years, you'll think he's treating her OK, otherwise why would she stay, but some women's self esteem is so low they just stay out of apathy and depression.

Parents of circumcised sons, what would you do if you're son(s) resented being circumcised?

my son was born with a uti, so I had the procedure done because the doctors said it would help him get better and stay well. I would tell my son that it was done because he was ill and it was going to help him, and sorry, but there's no undoing it. I doubt he will care.

Why cant America legalize same sex marriage on a national level?

its 2011 people seriously shouldn't still be homophobic... maybe I'm a little biased what are peoples opinions?

Are these good names for these characters?

The name and description of a character is not the most important thing in a book. What's important is character development. Perhaps you should be asking how does this sound as a story and provide us with a synopsis.

I like these names, what do you think?

Love em but you should switch the middle names so Noella Ruby and Evelyn Raine. Flows better that way I think.

Is my last name weird?

My husbands original last name was Rape, but before we got married he changed it to Rapier. His dad was fine with it for obvious reasons... I mean he wasn't even allowed to have his real last name on his Facebook because it was a "sexual assault..." Anyway since it was changed from Rape to Rapier, I can't help but think that people still hear "rape" in the name lol I'm sure it's just me being weird but I just wanted to ask someone that isn't bias. Thanks!

Unique names? Boy or girl?

Im pretty sure it has to be a saints name...i just got my confirmation and that's what we were told it had to b... I picked a boys name actually:) It was Blaise. I love it cause it fits my name, and it's unique. Also, his the saint of nature and peace and all of that stuff if you want a lovable meaning:) good luck!

How do I make my parents accept and support me?

Listen to your parents. they are right acutally. you deserve better then a girl. try to find a guy. its not right to like the same sex.. you can do so much better then that.

A book says it's wrong to be gay?

I'm not gay at all, but some piece of **** fairly tale says it's wrong to be gay and people believe that? Why do you people live your life by a book? Why are you people so worried about dying and not about living? Why are you so biased and ignorant? I'm only fourteen years old but Atheism is really starting to attract me. Thanks for the answers from both points of view.

What would you do if you had your own miniature?

I'd probably create 3 drafts of different religious beliefs and then circulate them in different parts of the planet. I'd then set my sandglass timer to see how long it takes before the entire planet is destroyed.

So if we follow the democratic plan and increase spending, we'll be living in a utopia?

that is, according to comedian Jon Stewart(liberal) but if we follow the republican plan and cut spending, it will be the Armageddon. So how is he not biased?

WHAT ZODIAC SIGN IS THE BEST SIGN TO GET ADVICE FROM?

I am Aquarian. Most people I know come to me for advice. So I thought that was kinda nice. I would get advice from a Capricorn, Sometimes a Virgo, and would be open to here what a Cancer would have to say, I can always feel comfortable in getting advice from Aquarian. Maybe I am bias though. WHAT ZODIAC SIGN IS THE BEST SIGN TO GET ADVICE FROM?

Can I do this in a story...?

You can't change names half way, it would confuse your readers. Unless your character has some name change or use as a codename etc. Try not to make it like it has always been their name since they're born. But you can use one of them as a middle name, I personally like the sound of Amara Raine -lastnamehere-. I choose Luke for a boy's name. Good luck!

My best friend cant chose between uvena raine or peyton lynn...what name do you like better?

ive a niece named peyton lynn and i dont particularly like it because of the syllable repetition and it sounds manly to me...but uvena raine is beautiful and unique :)

Why aren't Christians allowed to be offended by Islam?

There is nothing wrong or scary with being politically correct, I don't understand why some people are scared of it. Being correct is meaning to take the bias out. You are allowed to be 'offended' by another religion, even though you probably wouldn't like it if they were offended by yours. Mainly because now Muslims are becoming a target for hatred now. I don't like either of your or their religions, but then again you must respect other peoples beliefs.

What do you think of this answer for homosexuality being a choice?

The reason why people "aren't" born gay is because there are Y and X chromosomes , there are not chromosomes in the human body that make anyone gay or straight. People have a choice and the choice is simple you like guys or you like girls and thats it. When homosexuals say they were born gay they make it sound like a disease.

Guys: Ever regret mistreating an ex girlfriend?

Shes very supportive of you in all aspects, emotionally, financially, etc. Who listens to you, respects you, comforts you and makes you feel like a king... Shes loyal and faithful and not jealous... Doesnt get mad when your out with the guys, Takes you to nice restaurants, sporting events and sends your mom flowers to her work at every single occassion. She cooks for you cleans for you and washes your clothes and folds them and puts them away. Would you regret losing someone like this??

What Jose bias said in his opening statements wasn't proven is that illegal?

No. The whole point of an opening statement is to express opinions and give your view of the evidence. You can't make accusations if you know they have no foundation at all in the evidence you plan to show. What specifically are you referring to?

I want to add my mom's maiden name to mine after my parent's divorce?

I feel this is a great idea. You should talk to your parents and let them know you want to honor both of them by having both of their last names.

I don't like our new dog... at all? opinions/advice?

just watch them while they play and make sure to stop the older one from bullying calm but firm encouragement

Was my husband coming on to his coworker?!?

I totally do agree with the post of Hope's. Tell your husband what you've been told & how it did make you feel after hearing that. Also let him know the things he's saying are being heard by others & you don't appreciate that either. To be told by someone who overheard what he said is not a professional way to act in any office. These are things to be said in private so no one can overhear them. But to denounce you & praise her in front of others is in very bad taste for sure! Ask him what he wants from you & you sure don't expect to hear any more stories such as you've been told! Let him know how hurting it was to hear it. I know you won't "give away" how you got the info! I trust you can work things out, honey...the best to you...:)

Which straightener should I get?

GHD! I owned a Chi and it didn't live past 2 years. I work with girls at the salon who use GHD's everyday on their clients and its absolutely the best flat iron I've ever used, hands down. Its great for all hair types.

Ever feel like you don't belong here?

I mean I don't really understand it but when I look at life I feel like there is nothing to be cheerful about. And why people don't listen to the world and it's cry's of sadness. We live in a world of fear and the only thing people can focus on are their dame electronics. I have lost my faith in the human race and I'm only 16 years old, I havent even lived a full life yet. I see people at school and all they can focus on is having sex, at their age and already having sex. And when I see someone being mistreated I can't help but feel sorry for them and going to them and trying to cheer them up, when I had nothing to do with it. And people see that and they think you are having sex with them or something. I just read this one question where a girl at 14 was asking how to give a blowj*b. And people don't pay attention to what goes on over seas, wars are fought for land and resources they don't get what they are doing ravaging the world. I feel like an old hermit that is only the one seeing what is transpiring. Another guy with the same exact question as me made me want to ask questions and say how I feel. I feel like I am greater for something and I don't want to be a working man in this black and white world. The world just seems so meaningless to me and I can't help but feel sad for this world. I act like nothing bothers me and put on a smile for everyone around me so I don't bring everyone down but this sadness just keeps on getting to me.

Does it matter what bible translation I read..?

Bottom line: they are all translations of the original texts. If you want to be especially literate, learn to read in the original languages. Difficult, but enlightening.

I think someone beat my dog and told him water is bad. Now he won't drink water!?

you should slowly and lovingly get him to drink water by, first put him in a room with only you , a dish of nice cold water and some treats. ok so first try to get him closer to the water and every time he gets closer to the dish- give him a treat, pet him and say "good boy". soon he will be drinking water like there's no tomorrow. i hope that helps :)

If Obama supporters always used the term "the conservative leaning media" would you?

Dude, I have been trying for YEARS to figure out what "liberal" media means. The media, I think, just has its own agenda and I'm sure delights in all the division that occurs in this country...so that we don't look at what's REALLY going on.

I don't like our new dog... at all? opinions/advice?

Give her a little time she will win her over....Were you rejected when you came in the world...Give her a chance

2/3 of voters think reporters are mostly liberal biased, do you agree?

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Um, why is it suddenly so frowned upon to accept gender as what it is?

Creepy. Wouldn't send my kids there. I feel like I'm going to be the last person standing around fighting for it to be OKAY for girls to be girls and boys to be boys. Ridiculous. Sometimes, I think living in hicksville has it's perks.

How to fight a losing battle with one's self?

Hi, I can relate to this completely as I asked a similar question less than 5 minutes ago. I don't think I saw your age in this, but I'm 15 and I'm at this point where although it sounds cocky to say - I think I'm more mature than my peers but disregarding whether or not this is a social advantage or not, I feel like an outcast and have no one I can talk to without kind of acting like someone else. I see people everyday wasting their lives by skiving school, taking drugs and trying to loose their virginity I guess to 'fit in' and 'be cool'. It makes me mad and not wanting to lower myself to those kind of standards I spend most of my time in front of my laptop, most of the time just reading interesting things and trying to educate myself and understand things better, and the internet has thousands of people just like me which makes me think maybe the people who act all immature and retarded can kind of be mature when you don't have to see them face to face? Maybe some people are just not meant to fit in and be social. People fear what they do not understand, so when someone who doesn't follow the social majority's customs comes in, he's going to get a negative reaction. I know I didn't answer your question, I just thought I'd give some insight. I completely get your last paragraph, I feel the same thing about how I'm 99% sure I'm not depressed and in perfect control of my feelings, although there's times where I just don't see the point anymore, in almost anything.

I have an aggressive lhasa apso, what should i do?

My lhasa apso is about 5 years old and he is aggressive for no reason. He bit my baby cousin bc she tried to pet him, you think that's right?.. then when i need to shower him and cut his hair, he bites me... he has never been mistreated or anything. He doesn't let anyone around him.. like he someone tries to pet him he jumps at you and bites. I really don't know what to do? do i need to take him out more since i barely have time to do so.. my siblings work and stuff .. & no i don't have the time nor the money for professional help. please help.. and oh he is very healthy, got him checked last week at the vet

Can you appreciate human history without racial bias?

Yes, I was watching some videos of English history and even though I have no English ancestry at all nor do I have any resemblance, I still enjoyed the videos.

You may be doing the same mistake with alex riley, guys?

I've thought about this EXACT same thing just about every time I've watched Riley since his face turn. Riley is getting over simply because Miz is already so over as a heel that the fans will cheer anyone who counters him. It is a great way to create a face...and really seems to be only way to create a successful face in today's WWE.

What do you think of these names?

All great except for the fact that Peyton is a boys name. If your going to use it use it for your boy.

Chloe, Noella(Ella) or Evelyn(Evie)?

I love the name Chloe. Middle name Summer is alright. Beautiful names. Evie is an adorable nn, I just think Evelyn sounds old and outdated. I would either name the child Evie or something else. No evelyn lol

Dog feces in backyard is a call for the department of sanitation?

You've got a really nosey neighbor. It's true that dog feces can draw the attention of many flies and flies do carry disease. I think each City has different laws with regard to animals. I would call the Humane Society and/or Animal Control and the City of_________, that's where you'll find leash laws and zoning laws, etc. I don't think they can do much about you leaving one pile in the back yard, but for your dogs sake, you should clean it up, immediately. I am a breeder of tiny dogs, I use wee pads and a 2 huge litter boxes. I clean up whatever they do immediately...even urine. I do this because of the flies and because it's the sanitary thing to do. Dogs get sick from all kinds of things outside. It's good that you walk your dog in the backyard, because that means you can see the droppings immediately. I believe in being a responsible dog owner, both for the dogs sake and your neighbor's sake. I hope this helps in some way. Good luck with the neighbor.

Emergency, what do I do with my dog?

I would suggest that you keep her or find a good home for her that you know will take good care of her, its always sad when you have to make a decision like this but do what is best for you and your dog.

Am i out of the line, or are they? ?

I recently just moved in with my brother and his girlfriend, bcuz my boyfriend was mistreating me. Anyway I have lived with them before, they are charging me rent $300/mo. Including $25 a week for food. Which is fine, but my brothers girlfriend is always ***** at me about stupid stuff allllll the time it is very annoying! Like for example one night she had asked me when I got home from work to wash off my plate and put it in the dishwasher and start it, I said ok. Well, I got home and she was sitting on the couch I said hi and she just ignored me, I finished eating and went to put my dish in the washer but there was no room so I figure I would just wash it myself put it away and start it no biggie. Well she asked my what I was doing I explained and she got all pissy and started shoving dishes around in the washes just to fit this dish I had already washed. Then my brother calls me the next day while I'm at work and told me I was being too loud last night. I told him it was your girlfriend, and he said she said it was you! Other things she does is one day I forgot to put away the cereal box after I was done with it bcuz I was running late to work and I have to take the bus. She sends me a picture of it and asks me what's wrong with this picture, I'm like seriously just put it away. She get made when I'm in the kitchen bcuz I "leave crumbs" I always wipe up after myself but whatever so I just basically stay in my room unless I have to get ready for work, I've lost ten pound bcuz I don't like to eat around them bcuz I'm afraid she'll ***** about something. So tonight I went out to the kitchen (she's sleeping) I went to open the fridge and she had cut out an article on house rules when you take family members in about helping to clean taking out the trash keep your space tidy and so on. It really pissed me off bcuz one I pay rent I should be able to at least just take care of me and my stuff not the whole house 2 bcuz she just did that to be a ****** and 3 if they want to charge me rent then they should treat me like a renter and stay out of my room I leave them alone they should leave me alone my brother is always saying how I need to make my bed, I'm like I'm paying rent stay out of my room.